Member Spotlight Stories

Back in 2021, I came home from work, fell asleep, and woke up feeling like five years had passed.

In reality, I had only been asleep for three months—but when I woke up, five years of my memory were gone. My husband and I were divorced, my three sons were almost grown, and even my hometown of Hamilton, Ohio felt completely different—like time had moved on without me.

I was suddenly in a world that didn’t feel like my own.

I began seeing doctor after doctor, going through countless tests. Many of them knew me, but to me they were strangers. I was overwhelmed, scared, and unsure how to process it all.

My mind and body weren’t the same. I struggled to process information, felt anxious around people, and had gone from 185 pounds to 130. Even simple things felt difficult.

After years of physical therapy, I eventually found my way to the Lakota Family YMCA.

When I arrived, I was still very fragile—but the staff gave me something I didn’t even know I needed: space, patience, and kindness.

I started on the treadmill. Some days I pushed too hard, but Ms. Mary noticed and reminded me, “Amanda, you’ll get there by taking your time.”

Then one day, Ms. Stephanie challenged me to walk without holding on. I was scared—of falling, of not having support—but I decided to try. I walked slowly from the entrance to the daycare, like a scared turtle.

Now, just a year later, I walk with confidence.

The staff here may not have known me, but they paid attention. From the front desk to the smallest details, they are always there—and sometimes, just a few words can change someone’s life.

Thank you all so very much.

— Amanda